Saturday, October 24, 2009: Hi Sam! Happy Saturday. I am at the beach once again. It’s cool to see sail boats in the ocean. I wish you were here with me. I just got off the phone with Adriana Coronel Tenorio (AKA Adriana Howitt Coronel, Ari Coronel, Ari Coronel Tenorio, Ari Howitt, Ari Howitt Coronel) not long ago. I came here to blow off some steam and connect with you. The last couple days have been quite trying to say the least.
For starters, Adriana balked at the therapist idea like I knew she would. It was her idea to talk to someone to begin with. I doubt she could be honest with anyone, including a therapist…but what the hell. It was worth a try to see if we can figure out how to find a peaceful solution to this mess. So, I set up 2 appointments for next week and asked her to get back to me on what days will be good for her. That’s when she told me she wasn’t going to do it. Another words she lied to both of us Sam. Get used to it…Adriana lying that is…she just can’t help herself.
Then I come to find out Adriana did not bring everything she promised she would on Wednesday. She still has some vital documents of mine and by her own admittance she destroyed others. Of course I got a million excuses as to why she destroyed property that never belonged to her in the first place. This is pretty indicative of who Adriana is Sam. Incredible! Adriana’s actions alone will dictate what happens from here on out. She took very small steps to regain people’s trust however I don’t think she is capable of doing what is necessary to make wholesale changes in order to find a resolution here.
I read an interesting article in the New York Times today. I actually saved it in case you are interested in reading it. It was written by a family therapist and it talks about this very topic. In a way it was an absolution for me. There are so many people who love you already Sam! We don’t have to worry about the few who have such a putrid view of the world. That would only pollute the beautiful innocence you have and positive energy you have brought into all of the lives you have touched. I am so proud of you!
Kisses my little princess! I love you so much!
